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		<title>Why Your Vocation Matters</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2026 01:27:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Can Christians thrive in secular professions? One family lawyer shares how faith shaped her career journey and how God can use us wherever we work.
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By: <a href="http://tag/signs-of-the-times">Brianna Watson</a></p>
<p><strong>Jesus&rsquo; life shows us that who we are matters far more than what we do, and that God can use us in any profession.</strong></p>
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<p>I was sitting at the table one evening having dinner with my parents when the home phone started ringing. My mum answered the phone and after a few moments, looked directly at me.&nbsp;</p>
<p><em>Uh-oh</em>, I thought to myself.&nbsp;<em>I think this call is about me. But who is it?&nbsp;</em>What had I done to make them call during dinner on a weeknight?&nbsp;</p>
<p>Mum took the phone with her and left the room. I continued to wrack my brain, but to no avail. After some time, Mum re-entered the room with the phone in her hand. She was looking at me again.&nbsp;</p>
<p>&ldquo;Who was it?&rdquo; I asked, somewhat gingerly. It was one of my teachers from school.&nbsp;<em>Okay, so it was about me.</em>&nbsp;</p>
<p>I was in Year 12 and it was toward the end of the year, but a phone call to my parents on a weeknight was certainly not a regular occurrence. My curiosity was piqued, as was my unease. Which teacher was it, and what did they want? Mum proceeded to tell me that it was my Bible teacher.&nbsp;</p>
<p><em>That&rsquo;s weird</em>, I thought to myself. I quickly ran through all my Bible assessments in my head and my most recent classes. Everything was up to date; nothing was out of the ordinary. As Mum continued, I realised he was also the guidance counsellor for our Year 12 class. He was responsible for making sure that we had submitted our university preferences for the following year. He had called my parents because apparently, I was the only one in my class who had not done it, which was not like me. His concern had led him to call my parents to see if I was okay and to discuss my plans for the following year. Unfortunately for him, my parents didn&rsquo;t know what I was thinking. Nobody knew.&nbsp;</p>
<p>I had been praying about what I was going to do and the only idea that I had come up with was to study law. But where had that come from? I didn&rsquo;t know any lawyers. What I did know is that lawyers had quite the reputation for being dishonest and were not well-liked. Even my future father-in-law used to love telling unflattering jokes about the similarities between lawyers and catfish. And I was a Christian. I genuinely wondered if I could be an honest lawyer and a practising Christian, not to mention what everyone else would think.</p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><em>I genuinely wondered if I could be an honest lawyer and a practising Christian</em></h3>
<p>I kept praying about it and eventually I submitted my university preferences (just before the deadline). A Bachelor of Law was my first preference. After I accepted a position at my chosen university the following year, I gradually began admitting my plans to anyone who asked. I received some interesting feedback as well as unsolicited advice as I revealed my chosen career to some. Regardless of their opinions, I continued praying throughout my studies to reaffirm whether I was headed in the right direction or not, and after five long years, I graduated.&nbsp;</p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Your vocation is more than a job</h3>
<p>Thankfully for me, I was reminded that while He was on earth in the first century, Jesus showed us that your job is not what defines you. Even though He is the Son of God, Jesus worked as a tradesman. When He began His ministry, He travelled around teaching and healing with some of His closest followers: people also from mainstream jobs, such as fishermen and even a tax collector.</p>
<p>Jesus further demonstrated that our lives are not determined by our careers through His interaction with anyone and everyone that He encountered, including soldiers, politicians, religious leaders, prostitutes and even criminals. <strong>Jesus showed us that people are more important than their profession or their past.</strong> He also showed that each of us has unique needs. For example, when interacting with religious leaders, Jesus often challenged them from Scripture (Mark 7:6&ndash;13). Whereas, when Jesus met a man with leprosy, it was His physical ailment that Jesus healed (Matthew 8:1&ndash;4).&nbsp;</p>
<p>We are also called to follow His example by compassionately ministering to the physical, mental, social, emotional and spiritual needs of humanity. Whether you are a Christian or not, I&rsquo;m sure you would agree that doing so is a worthy calling, wherever you find yourself professionally.&nbsp;</p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading">From theory to practice</h3>
<p>I now work as a family lawyer. Of course, that just happens to be the one area of law I consistently maintained I would never work in throughout my studies. I have worked in various law firms throughout my career and in doing so, I have interacted with so many different people I would never have met otherwise. </p>
<p>While I certainly do not walk into appointments telling new clients or other professionals that I am a Christian, I do maintain my personal beliefs. In a secular workplace, my lifestyle choices alone are certainly enough to stand out, which creates many opportunities to explain the faith foundation that informs those lifestyle choices.</p>
<p>To my surprise, even when I have had a purely professional relationship with clients, God has still been present in those exchanges. At the conclusion of one of my court cases, I received a card from one of my clients thanking me for my work. Inside the card, they wrote that I had been an answer to their prayers. I had never spoken to that client about religion or the fact that I was a Christian but unbeknown to me, God had still used me in their life to strengthen their faith in Him.&nbsp;</p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading">It is through our actions to others that Jesus will use us</h3>
<p>While He was on earth, Jesus encouraged us to meet others where they are and to help them with what they need. Someone sleeping in their car may not be ready for a Bible lesson, but they might need a blanket to get them through a cold night. </p>
<p>Jesus said, &ldquo;For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me&rdquo; (Matthew 25:35,36). And, &ldquo;Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me&rdquo; (Matthew 25:40).&nbsp;</p>
<p>It is through our actions to others that Jesus will use us. No matter your profession, your background or where you are, God can find a way to use you to meet the needs of others. Sometimes it will be obvious when God creates those opportunities; like in conversation with your co-workers when you are asked why you attend church on the weekend or pray before you eat (if you&rsquo;re a Christian). </p>
<p>Even if you aren&rsquo;t a Christian, you may be going about your regular job on a normal day and might have no idea that God is using you in that moment. All God needs from you is for you to be willing and open. If you are, He will find a way to use you wherever you are.</p>
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		<title>Revisiting Your New Year’s Resolutions &#8211; (Remember Those?)</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2026 19:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Daily life challenges can derail our progress on New Year&#8217;s goals. The key is not to abandon them, but to reset and take a new approach.
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By: <a href="/tag/sonshine">Bec Harris</a></p>
<p><b> It&rsquo;s easy to start the new year full of enthusiasm for change. But by this time of year, many resolutions have fizzled.</b></p>
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<p>If that sounds familiar, you&rsquo;re not alone. Dr Marny Lishman, a health and community psychologist, shares strategies to help you reset and achieve your goals.</p>
<p>&ldquo;Eighty per cent of New Year&rsquo;s resolutions fizzle out by February,&rdquo;&nbsp;Dr Lishman explains.&nbsp;&ldquo;A lot of us burst into the new year with big plans, but life gets in the way.&rdquo;</p>
<p>For many, unexpected challenges like illness, work stress, or shifting priorities can derail progress. The key is not to abandon goals but to reset and approach them differently.</p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Step 1: Prioritise Your Goals</h3>
<p>Start by listing all your resolutions.&nbsp;&ldquo;Look at your goals and rank them from easiest to hardest,&rdquo;&nbsp;Dr Lishman suggests.&nbsp;&ldquo;Or, choose the one that excites you most.&rdquo;</p>
<p>Beginning with an easy or exciting goal helps build confidence: &ldquo;Achieving small wins creates momentum to tackle harder goals later.&rdquo;</p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Step 2: Focus on One Goal at a Time</h3>
<p>Trying to change too much at once is overwhelming.</p>
<p>&ldquo;Pick just one goal to focus on,&rdquo;&nbsp;Dr Lishman advises.&nbsp;&ldquo;If you spread yourself too thin, your goals will compete for attention, draining your energy.&rdquo;</p>
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<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Step 3: Break Goals into Actionable Steps</h3>
<p>Broad goals like&nbsp;&ldquo;get healthier&rdquo;&nbsp;can feel vague.</p>
<p>&ldquo;Break them down into specific behaviours,&rdquo;&nbsp;Dr Lishman says.&nbsp;&ldquo;Are you going to walk around the block? Go to the gym? Eat more vegetables?&rdquo;</p>
<p>The more detailed, the better: &ldquo;Decide when, where, and how long you&rsquo;ll do each action. Put it in your calendar. Set reminders. Treat it like an appointment.&rdquo;</p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Step 4: Use Planning and Accountability</h3>
<p>Planning ahead prevents obstacles from derailing progress.</p>
<p>&ldquo;Mapping out your year helps anticipate roadblocks,&rdquo;&nbsp;Dr Lishman said.&nbsp;&ldquo;You don&rsquo;t need every detail, but having a general idea of what&rsquo;s coming keeps you on track.&rdquo;</p>
<p>Accountability also makes a difference: &ldquo;Apps like Couch to 5K help break down goals and provide reminders,&rdquo;&nbsp;she says.&nbsp;&ldquo;Some people do better with a workout buddy or a group. If that helps you stay consistent, go for it.&rdquo;</p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Step 5: Build Sustainable Habits</h3>
<p>External motivation like apps or friends can fade.</p>
<p>&ldquo;Ultimately, you need to become your own accountability partner,&rdquo;&nbsp;Dr Lishman said.&nbsp;&ldquo;The goal is to create habits that stick, even when your support system isn&rsquo;t there.&rdquo;</p>
<p>If you struggle with motivation, consider joining a local group: &ldquo;Find a walking group or fitness class in your area. It provides structure until you can maintain the habit on your own.&rdquo;</p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Step 6: Reframe Your Mindset</h3>
<p>Mindset plays a huge role in long-term success.</p>
<p>&ldquo;Instead of saying, &lsquo;I have to do this,&rsquo; try saying, &lsquo;I get to do this,&rsquo;&rdquo;&nbsp;Dr Lishman says.&nbsp;&ldquo;Shifting from obligation to opportunity changes your motivation.&rdquo;</p>
<p>By focusing on small, consistent steps, you can restart and actually achieve your New Year&rsquo;s resolutions. The key is not perfection but persistence.</p>
<p>As Dr Lishman puts it, &ldquo;Start small, stay consistent, and let your progress build over time.&rdquo;</p>
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<p>Article supplied with thanks to <a href="https://sonshine.com.au">Sonshine</a>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2025 06:34:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Choosing the risky, faith-filled road with God brings provision, testing, and transformation. Discover lessons from the road less travelled.
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By: <a href="/tag/city-bible-forum">Michelle Ong</a></p>
<p><strong>What Do You Plan to Do With Your One Wild and Precious Life?</strong><br />
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<p>In my teens and right up to my early-20s, I dreamt of being a real &ldquo;risk taker&rdquo;, and I had quotes like Robert Frost&rsquo;s &ldquo;I took the one less travelled/and that has made all the difference&rdquo;, and Mary Oliver&rsquo;s &ldquo;What do you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?&rdquo; plastered all over my inspiration board.</p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">It was so easy to dream in a safe environment, where I didn&rsquo;t have any real responsibilities apart from not getting a C in my accounting (but I always succeeded in getting a C anyway), and showing up for my part-time work on time (and mustering the courage to ask the very grumpy payroll clerk why I wasn&rsquo;t paid for x hours).</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">So I dreamt of going away to big adventures abroad. Maybe I could be a foreign news correspondent, writing stories on the weak and oppressed. Or maybe (when I wasn&rsquo;t failing accounting) I could be some hot-shot business-type person.</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">But soon, years after graduation and having worked several jobs, I found myself less keen on going down the &ldquo;road less travelled&rdquo;, and opted for a safe and comfortable existence. And the only &ldquo;wild&rdquo; thing I did in my life was to relocate from New Zealand to Australia for a job opportunity.</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">But one day, God hit me with a real &ldquo;road less travelled&rdquo;, challenging me with what I would do with my &ldquo;one wild and precious life&rdquo;.</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">The organisation that saw me move to Australia in the first place went through a restructure, which affected my role. They offered me another one. Around the same time, a job opportunity had come up with another organisation, but it required a huge leap of faith because I had to fundraise my own support (very wild!).</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">Two opportunities presented themselves. No one would fault me if I went with the first option, because all I had to do was sign the papers, and move on. The second option, however, came with a lot of uncertainties as Australia was in an economic recession then. Fundraising in a recession sounded so foolish.</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">So I &hellip; went with the second option. And God travelled with me down the &ldquo;road less taken&rdquo;, which I am not going to lie, was filled with kinds of obstacles and thorns, and wild animals. Yet we travelled together, and when we emerged at the end of the other side, I can gladly say going down the &ldquo;road less travelled&rdquo; with God made all the difference.</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">Below are two things I learnt with God as my walking guide.</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<h3>God Provides</h3>
<p><span lang="en-GB">The news was awash with stories of rising grocery prices, inflation, and mortgage rate hikes, when I started fundraising.</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">I wasn&rsquo;t sure who would want to finance a ministry worker in the face of such ghastly news. In fact, it seemed almost absurd that I was trying to fundraise in such a lean time.</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">Perhaps I should have just signed with my previous organisation, and not have to worry about finances.</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">I wrestled with it every day, and my prayer group prayed with me and over me in our weekly Monday meetings. I wasn&rsquo;t sure if I&rsquo;d ever be able to reach the mountain.</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p>And yet, over the months that followed, God provided through the generosity of His people. People who saw the vision and mission of this ministry, and wanted to invest in it so the gospel can go out.</p>
<p>It felt very surreal when the finances started coming in. It&rsquo;s really hard to put it in words, so I&rsquo;ll instead give you a soundbyte that was going through my mind.</p>
<p>&ldquo;Whaaaatt&hellip;&rdquo;</p>
<p>&ldquo;This is craaazyyy&rdquo;</p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">&ldquo;Noooo waayyy&rdquo;</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">Pretty much noises of disbelief. Like, God, I know You provide, but woowww, look at this!</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p>(I still get goosebumps re-telling this story.)</p>
<h3><span lang="en-GB">God Sustains</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></h3>
<p>I would be lying if I said finances came pouring in and my life was so amazing the moment I put my trust in God to provide, and the moment I did His will.</p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">It was actually the reverse. My faith had never been more tested until I stepped into this role. I first came down with bronchitis and in the span of a month, a cold. People whom I had made appointments with to seek their support were suddenly made redundant, got sick, or completely forgot to show up. The X-Files theme song would make for the best OST in the back of all these happenings.</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">Yet, God sustained me. He sustained me through the kindness of friends who prayed with me, heard my concerns, and bought meals for me. Another friend suggested I listen to a Tim Keller podcast titled, The Shield of Faith.</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">&ldquo;The enemy attacks at the front line,&rdquo; Keller said. &ldquo;People on the front line are much more likely to go down with a bullet than people who are cowering about five miles behind, like a lot of us do.&rdquo; (It also felt God was bellowing into my heart.)</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p>Keller said the front line is the place of mission, where we open our mouths and go out on a limb to make the difference in a neighbourhood or city.</p>
<p>And when we do that, there&rsquo;ll be all sorts of flying missiles. And this is why it&rsquo;s so important for us to put on this &ldquo;armour&rdquo;, which is the shield of faith.</p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">And that&rsquo;s when fiery arrows and molten lava start pouring down, and this is when we have to lift our shields&ndash;big giant things, like a huge door&ndash;to defend ourselves.</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p>For me, lifting my &ldquo;shield&rdquo; meant praying, worshipping, and declaring God&rsquo;s goodness in my life even on discouraging and disheartening days. I would pray, &ldquo;The Lord is my refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble&rdquo; (Psalm 46:1-2 ESV), &ldquo;I lift up my eyes to the hills, from where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, who made heaven and earth&rdquo; (Psalm 121:1-2).</p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">And when my arms were tired of all the hefty lifting, I simply sought shelter under His wings (Psalm 91:4). Here I am God, just taking a cosy nap under Your wing.</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">Venturing down the road less travelled isn&rsquo;t always as glamorous as it&rsquo;s made out to be. Sure, it made me feel bold and daring, going where no man would potentially go (especially in the middle of a recession), but it came with setbacks, bruised knees, and skinned thighs.</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">Thankfully, my travel companion is also our Great Shepherd! And in His kindness and mercy, led me to green pastures and still waters (Psalm 23). While it may sound like He took me away on a big getaway, the real rest came to me when I surrendered (even though biting and kicking) it all to God because this is His work, and I am just His hands and feet. I had to rest in His provision and care.</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">And He never fails.</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span lang="en-GB">At the end of my first year, through God&rsquo;s grace and the generosity of His people, I managed to meet my fundraising target. I was gobsmacked.</span><span lang="en-AU">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p>And that role, which in human wisdom, would make more sense to sign on? It was rolled up after yet another restructure. (What a plot twist.)</p>
<p>Perhaps today you&rsquo;re at a crossroads about a decision. You&rsquo;ve been thinking of switching careers, taking unpaid leave to pursue further studies, or maybe feeling like God&rsquo;s asking you to head down a really unexpected path. And your heart&rsquo;s a little shaky about what the future holds. Can I assure you (after you have prayed and seek wise counsel) that you can trust God with the outcome because He is the most trustworthy walking guide you can ever have in your life.</p>
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<p>Article supplied with thanks to <a href="https://citybibleforum.org/">City Bible Forum</a>.</p>
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		<title>Navigating Life’s Unexpected Detours</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2025 22:18:25 +0000</pubDate>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By: <a href="/tag/moments-to-rest">Lorrene McClymont</a></p>
<p><b> Have you ever had dreams and plans for life, started down the path to achieving them, and after a while you looked around and wondered, &ldquo;How did I get here&rdquo;?</b><span id="more-967"></span></p>
<p>Where you are standing doesn&rsquo;t seem to relate to the dreams and plans you started out trying to achieve. Sometimes, that can be exciting; we can be further along than expected. Other times, it can be incredibly frustrating, with a side order of unmet expectations and unfulfilled dreams.</p>
<h3>Detours Lead to Questions</h3>
<p>I got married for the first time at 19. My dreams for that marriage were pretty standard; I think: grow old together, have lots of children, buy a house, sell it after a few years, travel some and then have some Grand kids running around. Things did not go the way I expected. I have a beautiful daughter from that marriage, but when it ended, I was left with a lot of questions. There were so many questions about myself, God, and my future as a single mum. I wondered how on earth this had happened. My reality was so far from my plan.</p>
<p>I have been married to my second husband for close to sixteen years now. Again, I had many dreams and plans for this marriage, and they also involved many children, houses, and travel. My husband has a son, we blended our family, but we weren&rsquo;t able to have any more children. We don&rsquo;t own a house any more, and we haven&rsquo;t done a lot of travel. The dream to have more children in particular was an incredibly hard one to let go of, I grieved it for a long time. Once again, my master plan looked nothing like the reality I was standing in.</p>
<h3>Life is Not Linear</h3>
<p>I like to come into situations with my steps from A to B pretty much mapped out. I have learned that life is not linear. We don&rsquo;t go from A to B in a nice straight line. We take steps ahead; we go back a few steps. There might need to be a side step and then another step up. Somewhere there could be a stop on a platform for a while. Sometimes we go around in a circle and end up where we started. We need to continually check though, that we are still taking steps. It&rsquo;s easy to become frozen when life is not the way you dreamed.</p>
<h3>Unfulfilled Dreams Can Be Pivotal Moments</h3>
<p>If life were linear, I wonder if we would have the character development we need to live in community with other people. The situations that we encounter along the way that seem at the time to be the most painful detours can be the situations that produce the most growth in us. Those side steps that seem like heartbreak and unfulfilled dreams can be the steps that lead to pivotal moments in our futures.</p>
<p>There is a passage in the bible in&nbsp;<a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John%2015%3A%204-5&amp;version=NIV">John 15 :4-5</a>, where it talks about how we are like the branches of a grapevine and Jesus is like the vine. It says that we are to remain in him. Without the vine (Jesus) we can&rsquo;t produce fruit. Life is not linear, but if we are not managing all the challenges in partnership with Jesus, they become so much harder. We can continue to walk through the difficult situations that we face because we know that we don&rsquo;t do it alone. He will produce good things out of the painful detours in our lives when we walk it with him.</p>
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<p>Article supplied with thanks to <a href="https://momentstorestblog.com/">Lorrene McClymont</a>.</p>
<p>About the Author: Lorrene McClymont is a writer and photographer from Hope Images. On her blog &lsquo;Moments to Rest&rsquo;, she shares about rest, faith, and family.</p>
<p><i>Feature image: Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@sven_piek?utm_content=creditCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=unsplash">Sven Piek</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com/photos/brown-wooden-fence-on-snow-covered-ground-during-daytime-j-3e9jMN1i0?utm_content=creditCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=unsplash">Unsplash</a></i></p>
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